#writeingriefDay 6-Again, this was written some time ago.
Write into habits. I’ve sat down with this prompt three times this week but haven’t written a word.
Write into habits. Habits. Habits.
Checking my bump. First it was bloat and then it was baby. And then she died.
Habits. Waking up in the middle of the night for a peanut butter sandwich and a glass of milk. Until I didn’t. I didn’t wake up one night just days after Christmas 2013. I noticed, but I didn’t think much of it. After I found out she was dead, I realized that not waking up starving meant something. Of course it doesn’t matter because Alaska died, so it doesn’t matter that it took me a few days to catch on.
Peanut butter sandwiches never tasted so good those days. I don’t eat those anymore.
For a while I thought maybe the peanut butter sandwiches killed her. Or maybe it was my hairspray. Or toothpaste. Or maybe I shouldn’t have worn tights.
Now I know that isn’t true. I mean I don’t have proof or anything, but I know that peanut butter sandwiches didn’t kill my little girl.
And I know that whatever did kill her doesn’t matter. Why doesn’t matter.
And habits. I’m having some major delays with this prompt. I just stop and hold my breath for a few seconds and don’t write anything.
Habits. Write into habits. Pregnancy comes with many habits. Take your vitamins, exercise, eat healthy snacks.
What habits does Empty have? Breathe. At least try. Eat. Just enough. Feel. Try not to feel. Feel every bit.
And After? I’m not sure. I’m still stumbling around out here.